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Friday October 14, 2005

14th October 2005

Friday October 14, 2005

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October 11, 2005, 9:07 pm PDT

10/07 The Latest Debates

I am a bit late chiming in here, but the subject has been on my mind since the show aired. 

I am astonished that people think a bottle of formula is an appropriate substitute for nursing.  Why is an artificial breast fine, but the real one disgusting in some way?  It makes no sense at all.  Plus, there are a lot of babies who do not cope well with formula.  I really don’t think it is fair for my child to be miserable and constipated for a week or two because some narrow minded fool can’t act like a human being.   

I also laughed myself silly when I hear people talking about breastfeeding ‘discreetly’.  Have you ever been a parent?  Granted, some children will tolerate being under a blanket, but certainly not mine.  I did try for a while and realized how foolish it was.  In the first place, if I used a blanket it caused a huge amount of attention to what I was doing.  If I just nursed him, people would stand there and talk to me and my child, even touching his check and hair without realizing that I was nursing at all.  I find it terribly amusing that it is very likely a anti-NIP person probably oooh-ed and awe-ed over my child, not realizeing I was nursing at the time.  So, which sounds more discreet to you? 

Second, who wants to eat under a blanket?  (or in a bathroom)  Babies are people and have as much right to common decency as everybody else.  If we suggested that elderly people need to eat in the bathroom or under a blanket because they drool, people would be outraged.  How is a baby an less of a person? 

 I am ready to have my second child in January.  This time around, I will keep a blanket in my diaper bag.  If somebody asks me to cover up, I will happily place a blanket on their head so nobody has to look at their attitude. 

 


 
 
October 12, 2005, 10:11 am PDT

10/07 The Latest Debates

Quote From: xylemnik86

It is called a breast pump , a bodle and some planning. It is also about curtsy and respect for others. I find it totally disgusting to sit there and watch a mother whip it out in public and stick it into the kids mouth. YOU DIDN’T Whip it out before you had the kid now did you . I just bet you all are against porn too……. I am really sick to death how this country has a double standard for just about everything. If you don’t have children you are considered selfish. If you do everything has to be about them. Were is the balance. This country is to tilted to the right and the individuals rights are not even being respected. I also have a comment for the parents who love to take their kids to church and let them sit and scream during the service… Boy do I have a problem with you … I spend 1 hour a week at mass. I DO NOT Appreciate to have to put up with a screaming kid in back of me wile the priest is trying to read the Gospel. Why don’t you take the little darling in the quite room so the rest of us can enjoy the service and you can contain your children. The speakers in there will droned out the kids cry, too….

A breast pump has the same problems that bottle feeding does;  man can not reproduce what God (or nature, or however you attribute it) has designed so perfectly.  People can not make something that extracts the milk with the same efficency as a suckling child, and artificial human milk can not match real human milk, and an artificial nipple can not garner the same muscular response while sucking that feeding directly from the tap does.  They might be able to approxiamate it, but never truly reproduce it.  All of these things have their place, but I think that place is in emergency situations, not everyday life.  They are to help babies survive, but are not the best choice all other things being equal.   

Breast pumps available to the public never worked for me.  A breast pump at the hospital I was using post-surgery (emergency surgery at 5 weeks postpartum) was able to relieve the bulk of my engorgemnent, but certainly not close to being able to empty the breast. 

And, for the record, in the nearly 4 years I have been breastfeeding, I have never “whipped it out”.  That is a term used by people who are trying to be offensive.  I have never seen anybody nursing act in this way.     

In response to your issue with children during services:  If the parents were breastfeeding, they probably wouldn’t be screaming.  That is one way to keep a child quiet and put them to sleep.  So, you either need to get used to screaming, or get used to breastfeeding.  Jesus didn’t say to keep the kids quiet, he said to include them, so the insistence on segregating children is not something the Gospels would support. 

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