Friday October 14, 2005
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10/07 The Latest Debates
Quote From: xylemnik86It is called a breast pump , a bodle and some planning. It is also about curtsy and respect for others. I find it totally disgusting to sit there and watch a mother whip it out in public and stick it into the kids mouth. YOU DIDN’T Whip it out before you had the kid now did you . I just bet you all are against porn too……. I am really sick to death how this country has a double standard for just about everything. If you don’t have children you are considered selfish. If you do everything has to be about them. Were is the balance. This country is to tilted to the right and the individuals rights are not even being respected. I also have a comment for the parents who love to take their kids to church and let them sit and scream during the service… Boy do I have a problem with you … I spend 1 hour a week at mass. I DO NOT Appreciate to have to put up with a screaming kid in back of me wile the priest is trying to read the Gospel. Why don’t you take the little darling in the quite room so the rest of us can enjoy the service and you can contain your children. The speakers in there will droned out the kids cry, too….
A breast pump has the same problems that bottle feeding does; man can not reproduce what God (or nature, or however you attribute it) has designed so perfectly. People can not make something that extracts the milk with the same efficency as a suckling child, and artificial human milk can not match real human milk, and an artificial nipple can not garner the same muscular response while sucking that feeding directly from the tap does. They might be able to approxiamate it, but never truly reproduce it. All of these things have their place, but I think that place is in emergency situations, not everyday life. They are to help babies survive, but are not the best choice all other things being equal.
Breast pumps available to the public never worked for me. A breast pump at the hospital I was using post-surgery (emergency surgery at 5 weeks postpartum) was able to relieve the bulk of my engorgemnent, but certainly not close to being able to empty the breast.
And, for the record, in the nearly 4 years I have been breastfeeding, I have never “whipped it out”. That is a term used by people who are trying to be offensive. I have never seen anybody nursing act in this way.
In response to your issue with children during services: If the parents were breastfeeding, they probably wouldn’t be screaming. That is one way to keep a child quiet and put them to sleep. So, you either need to get used to screaming, or get used to breastfeeding. Jesus didn’t say to keep the kids quiet, he said to include them, so the insistence on segregating children is not something the Gospels would support.