Wednesday March 14, 2007
I am trying to read the IEP stuff. It scares me. I don’t know why I am having such a mental block trying to learn this stuff. Maybe because it is so important…I don’t know. I just hope I am able to pull it together because I need to use my “Matlock” skills for something far more important that keeping people from illegally charging us rent.
I was reading some threads in special needs boards about IEP meetings and it sounds like such a battleground, with such high stakes. I know I have a support system and a team of people I can go to for help, but it is so intimidating. I know in a few short years it will be old hat, but right now it is going to take a lot of strength just to make the phone calls and walk in that room and talk to people.
I need to just go to bed. I hope my mind quiets down so I can get some rest.
Raeden’s site hasn’t been updated since January I am ashamed to admit but that’s good too cause nothing bad has happened. I do need to put her Strawberry reaction up there.
http://www.caringbridge.com/visit/raedenstorm
I was so freaked out at our first IEP. I was shaking and could barely speak correctly. I had heard such horrible things. But it went pretty well. We got what we wanted – there wasn’t any fighting at all or even disagreement. Hang in there.
You’ll be fine. It’s not until the first meeting that you know how much of a battle you really have anyway. As long as you know what your (and his) rights are and what he needs, you’re well equipped. Any problem shooting can be specific after the meeting.
This post resonated with me for a different reason–it reminded me that I have been putting off a conversation I need to have with one of my daughter’s doctors (with regards to her ongoing ear problems). I can’t even call this guy to start asking the questions I need to ask. So, I hear you. And feel for you.
Here’s to us both gathering the strength we need to be the best parents to our kids we can be!
Just for reinforcement, our first IEP went really well. Our school system has been very helpful and cooperative with us. I hope that yours goes just as well!